Victim of serial romance fraudster: ‘I felt my world just falling apart'
Victim, Hannah, recalls how she was duped out of thousands by online romance fraudster.
A woman who was defrauded out of thousands of pounds after dating an online romance fraudster, has told ĢƵ Radio 5 Live she ‘felt her world falling apart’ after she discovered she was pregnant with his child.
Serial romance fraudster Peter Gray, 35, was sentenced to 56 months in prison in February for defrauding four women of £80,000. He was also given restraining orders in relation to those victims.
Gray found the women on Tinder and would date them to develop close connections that would help him commit offences for his own personal financial gain.
ĢƵ Radio 5 Live’s Clare McDonnell has spoken to three of his victims, as well as Hannah’s sister Natalie, about their experiences.
Hannah met Gray on Tinder and began an on and off relationship with him; during that time ‘alarm bells’ and ‘red flags’ began appearing. But Hannah believes he was able to ‘manipulate’ her into staying with him and later found out she was pregnant with Gray’s child.
After meeting Grey, her sister, Natalie looked into his past and discovered Peter was a con man.
Natalie said: “You see these things happening on TV. You never believe it’s going to happen to you but believe me it can”.
Hannah told ĢƵ Radio 5 Live Drive about the moment her family told her what they’d learnt about Gray: “I just thought, ‘how am I supposed to deal with this?’.
“I wouldn’t have brought a baby up without it feeling like a secure loveable home from both parents”, she added.
In a statement, Tinder told the ĢƵ: “We have implemented various ways to warn users of potential scams or fraud, from in-app features to popup messages and education”.
The company added: “all users can request that their match be photo-verified prior to messaging. We also partner with NGOs and local authorities to promote awareness of online fraud”.
Commenting at the time of sentencing, Detective Constable Jess Hird, of Kirklees District CID, said: “Gray is now rightly behind bars for the offences he has committed.
“I would urge anyone who believes that their details have been used fraudulently to report it. We can, and will, take action against fraudsters such as Gray.”
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This clip is from ĢƵ Radio 5 Live Drive on Monday 6 May 2024.
You can also listen to the 5 Minutes On podcast ‘The women conned by a romance fraudster’ on ĢƵ Sounds.